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Top 7 Tips for Luring People to Your Webcam

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The number one thing that most random cam users complain about is not being able to lure people to their webcam long enough to hold a discussion. This problem is an issue that can easily be resolved by using various luring techniques. That’s right, just like when you go fishing, you’ll need to lure the other users to your cam. Once they are lured to your cam, you’ll then be able to get them hooked by chatting them up. Here are 7 tips for luring people to your webcam.

1.       If you look attractive, good for you; it will normally work well for luring people to your webcam. However, if you don’t look like Brad Pitt or Megan Fox, try getting dressed up to make yourself look the best you can. Wearing makeup or even wearing new clothes will normally help you out a lot.

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2.       Using old webcams will give you poor results. Old webcams have terrible video output resolutions. Opt for a newer webcam with HD streaming qualities. This will normally lure tons of additional people to your webcam.

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3.       Don’t smoke on cam. Sure you may be a heavy smoker that goes through 3 packs a day, but nobody likes watching another person smoke on cam. If you want to smoke, leave the cam for 5 minutes and come back when you’re done. You’ll avoid turning off the other users.

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4.       Being different is so important on random cam sites like Chatrandom. If you’re just another brick in the wall, nobody will feel the need to stick around for a chat. Dress differently, talk differently and behave differently from all of the other users. You’ll instantly notice more people finding you interesting.

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5.       Be quick about getting the conversation off the ground. Too many random cam users just sit around waiting for the other person to start talking first. Don’t ever leave the opening line up to the person you’re matched with. If you wait too long, you’ll get nexted. Instead, start talking as soon as you see the other person on your screen.

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6.       Put some music on in the background. This will not only set the mood and tone for your conversation, but you will also be sharing your interests without even saying a word. As soon as someone recognizes one of the songs you’re listening to, they will want to talk about it.

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7.       Be your crazy self; don’t be your boring self. Random cam sites are an excellent place to let the crazy within you loose. Leave your boring work self at work and act like you’re alone in your bedroom. Dance, sing and do whatever comes to mind; people will definitely find you interesting.

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4 Tips for a Better Group Chat Experience

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Group chatting online is becoming one of the fastest growing trends on the internet. Being able to converse with multiple people from all over the world simultaneously is truly exciting. However, many people tend to forget the basic non-written rules of video chatting with strangers. If you want to have a better group chat experience online, you will want to follow the 4 following rules. Doing so will allow the people you’re talking with to actually enjoy talking with you and they will most likely want to stick around for much longer periods of time.

Lower Case Letters

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Using lower case letters may seem ridiculous, but it’s important to mention it. Way too many people use capital letters while chatting with strangers and this can often give off the wrong impression. If you want to avoid making the other people think that you are screaming, you should always use lower case letters. Not only do capital letters give off the impression that you are screaming everything that you are saying, but it also makes it incredibly difficult for others to read what you are writing.

Raise Hand to Talk

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Joining in on a group conversation is different from chatting with strangers one on one. In group chats, you will normally be a total of 5 individuals chatting at the same time; you and four others. If the chat is vocal, many people will tend to talk at the same time, which can often become confusing. To make it easier for you to know who is talking and to keep the flow of the conversation smooth, you should always raise your hand when you want to talk.

Be Respectful Towards Others

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Respecting the people that you are chatting with is extremely important. Cyber bullying and insulting people on the internet is not the way to make friends online. If you want to have a wonderful group chat experience, be polite and use respectful terms while chatting with the other users.

Use Standard Font Families

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Last but not least, using a regular or standard font-family while chatting with strangers on the internet is of utmost importance. Too many people choose to use odd looking or goofy looking fonts. This makes it incredibly difficult for the other users to read what you are saying. Even though the fonts may look awesome, to the people reading your words, they will only come off as annoying. Your goal shouldn’t be to impress others with funny fonts, it should be to have a nice conversation to make new friends.

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3 Tips to Successfully Flirt with Girls Online

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Flirting is a great way to subtly show a girl you are interested in her sexually or romantically. It can be expressed in many ways; through eye contact, body language, tone of voice, smiling, or a combination of these and other behaviors. The key to flirting is to remain playful and not become too serious about it, the more relaxed you are when flirting the more effective it will be. A successful flirtation can make you stand out from the crowd and give you an edge over the competition. The best way to improve your flirting technique is to practice it a lot on girls, learn how to read their mood and react appropriately, know when to be subtle and when to be obvious, and read these 3 tips to successfully flirt with girls online:

Be Positive

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The key to flirting is to always remain happy, upbeat, and positive. If you come across as angry, sad, or complain lots when flirting you won’t get much success. When flirting online the chances are you will be chatting with a stranger and making a positive impression can create instant attraction. If you’re using a webcam to chat, keep smiling and laughing when flirting as girls respond to positive vibes. If you’re text chatting use smileys when appropriate to display a positive attitude. Try to make her laugh and keep the conversation easy-flowing and casual.

Tease Her

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This can be a dangerous flirting technique if executed incorrectly, however, if done in the right way it can work a charm. Teasing a girl is a more obvious sign of flirting, remember that girl you liked when you were 5 and you pushed her in the mud to get her attention? This is essentially the adult version of that, poking fun at her little mistakes in a fun and casual manner. For instance, if she types something incorrectly, you could reply saying she’s an intelligent girl or if she drops something on webcam, you can say she’s a butterfingers. When using this tip be sure that you don’t say anything offensive and don’t constantly tease her. Teasing at the right time in a fun way can lighten the mood and be an effective way of flirting.

Give Her a Nickname

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When people are in relationships they give each other nicknames such as ‘honey’, or ‘sweetie’. If you give the girl you’re flirting with a cute nickname she will pick up on the signs of flirting and generally respond with a nickname for you. For instance, if you’re chatting to a girl online and you message her saying ‘So, it looks like you’re playing hard to get’, you can instead use a nickname to make it more appealing and personal ‘So, it looks like Barbie doll is playing hard to get. I love when Barbie does that’. The message instantly becomes more personal and has an element of humor too. Doing this can create a connection between the both of you and is a flirting technique that works very well.

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Common Webcam Problems and Knowing When to Buy a New One

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Webcams have become the most important piece of hardware for many people. With random cam sites, video chatting, and business meetings all taking place using a webcam it is essential that it works perfectly and doesn’t let you down. It has happened to all of us at some stage, you’re in the middle of a conversation and your webcam freezes. Nothing is frustrating than this and it certainly sucks the fun out of using your webcam. If you’re experiencing consistent problems with your webcam, it may be time to upgrade and buy a new one. However, before you splash out try out the solutions below and see if you can fix the problem.

Dark or Black Image

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This is a very common problem on webcams where a black screen appears immediately after the first image is displayed. There are a couple of things that could be causing this. Firstly, check the webcam’s light indicator is switched on by running the ‘Camera Assistant’, which will automatically adjust the webcam’s settings to display the best possible image. The second cause may be that it’s too dark in the room and the webcam has automatically switched off. Solve this by either turning on a light source or switching the webcam into night mode. If you still encounter the dark image problem, try reinstalling the webcam software.

Webcam Isn’t Detected

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Many laptops have built-in webcams, however, some people may have a better quality webcam which they wish to install on their laptop. A common problem encountered here is that when the webcam is plugged in the computer doesn’t detect it and it won’t work. If you have this problem, check the version of windows you’re using and download the appropriate driver software for the webcam. Sometimes the driver doesn’t automatically install properly and you need to do this manually. If the webcam still doesn’t work, try plugging it into a different USB port. It may take a few attempts to completely solve this problem.

Blurry Image

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If the picture your webcam is displaying is burry and out of focus, you can adjust the settings to create a better quality picture. If you go to the settings in your webcam and adjust the video capture properties, paying special attention to brightness and contrast, you should be able to sharpen the picture. Play around with the settings until you’re happy with the picture being displayed. If you can’t get a great image on screen it could be due to the webcam’s quality and upgrading may be the best option.

Driver Issues

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If you have any of the following problems, it is likely your driver is out of date and needs to be updated with a newer version:

  • Sound isn’t synced properly to the video
  • Webcam won’t shut down after use
  • Webcam plays sound but has a botched display

These are all software issues which should disappear after reinstalling your driver. If, however, the webcam remains problematic after upgrading all the drivers then it is possible the webcam hardware is faulty and it is time to buy a new one.

 

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Top 4 Ways to Increase Your Social Skills Online

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When socializing in the real world, many people find it difficult to properly express themselves with doubt and a lack of confidence limiting social interactions. However, the internet provides a more comfortable platform on which to socialize. Being able to talk to people through a computer screen offers a certain level of protection, which increases people’s confidence and allows them to speak more freely online. There are many ways to be social online from using comment forums to social media to video chat. Video chat is one of the most popular ways to socialize online and can be a great way to improve your online social skills. The following 4 tips can help increase your social skills in a matter of minutes:

Make a Great First Impression

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Knowing how to make a great first impression is the first step in engaging someone in conversation. If you never get past a simple ‘hello’ with a person, they will never discover how great you are. So, if you connect with someone on video chat try and have a few topics of discussion prepared to ensure the conversation runs smoothly. Steer away from any controversial subjects at the beginning and keep the conversation easy, allowing it to flow naturally. As you practice, starting a conversation will become easier and easier and you will be able to spark a conversation without a moment’s hesitation.

Tell a Great Story

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Telling an interesting story or providing an entertaining antidote can really provide a strong connection with your audience. We all know people who ramble on for hours when telling a story, starting from a point which has little significance and recounting every minor detail. The trick to telling a great story is to capture people’s interest at the very beginning. Start by saying why the story is important and try to use vivid words throughout. Keep the story short and simple with a bit of humor if at all possible. You can post the story to a forum or on social media and gauge the reaction before trying it out in real time on video chat.

Be a Good Listener

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Being a great listener is actually much harder than it sounds. A lot of people will simply talk about anything to fill a short silence and actually not give the other person a chance to talk. Remember, if you’re the only one talking then it isn’t a conversation and you may as well be talking to yourself. Social skills are all about knowing when to talk and when to listen. If you feel the person you’re chatting with is a bit shy offer them encouragement by changing the subject to something which interests them.

Make Eye Contact

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Obviously this only applies to socializing on webcam, however, eye contact is one of the most important pieces of body language. If you are looking away from the screen or at something in the background when chatting on webcam, the other person is going to think you aren’t interested in what they have to say. On the other hand, starting at your webcam lens will come across as creepy. A good rule of thumb is to match what the other person is doing – if they are making eye contact then you do too, if they are looking away then look away too.

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List of 7 Tips that will get you Laid Online  

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Finding love on the internet isn’t always easy. There are tons of online dating sites, but most of them cost quite a lot of money in the long run. Also, dating sites require you to send messages to tons of users and then wait for them to respond. Rather than using dating sites, why not take a ride on the wild side and give live cam sites a try? Here are 7 tips that will help you get laid online by using live cam sites.

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  1. Don’t ever use live cam sites in the dark. When you turn your webcam on in the dark, nobody will want to watch your cam and everyone will “next” you. Turn on the lights or even use a small lamp next to where you’re sitting. Even if it’s a small light; a bit of light is way better than no light at all.
  2. If you’re a girl, wear some make up. Make yourself look sexy and wear some hot clothes. If you’re a guy, you should wear good looking clothing, but don’t go naked on cam. Naked guys are all over the place; you’re goal is to stand out from the crowd, not look just like everyone else.
  3. Be sincere with the users you meet. Don’t make up false personas or act like a know-it-all. Be yourself and be sincere if you want to get the most attention. Most of the time, the most regular people get the most attention when using live cam sites. Talk about your everyday activities, what makes your day and mention your hobbies.14
  4. Just like on real dates, ask the other person about themselves. Ask them what they like to do, what turns them on and what makes them smile. Ask them about their families and how long they have been using live cams. Really getting to know the other person is a wonderful way to make strong connections.
  5. When the time is right, mention that you have been single for a while. Then ease into the fact that you have blue balls. You don’t need to be direct about it, but little hints that you’re horny can go a long way. The other person may say that they are in the same position.
  6. Compliment the other person. Think about how they feel and make them feel special. When using live cams, you will want to make them feel unique. There are thousands of people online at all times, so you want them to feel like they are the only person you want to watch.
  7. Getting laid online requires a little bit of guts. You will probably need to make the first move. When you find someone that you really connect with, ask them if they have ever done this type of thing before. It’s a great way to open the door towards conversing about it. Once you’ve determined that the other person is willing to give it a try, take your top off and enjoy the ride.

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Get Home Renovation Tips on Video Chat Sites  

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Did you know that you can use video chat sites for pretty much anything? That’s right; most people think that video chat sites are for finding love or having sex on cam only, but they can be very helpful for many other purposes. In fact, many people have begun using ChatRandom for home renovation tips. With so many people online at any given moment, it’s very easy to find tips for home renovations. So if you’re renovating your home or even considering it, you’ll definitely want to ask for help on ChatRandom.

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Asking for Tips

Asking for help on video chat sites is nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, it’s a great way to learn how to do things right. Many handy people hang out at ChatRandom and tons of contractors can be found online here at all times. Asking for tips is easy and can allow you to get really cool ideas for your home renovation tasks.

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One of the easiest ways to ask for help with your home renovations is to make a sign. Make it clear in your sign that you’re searching for home renovation tips; nothing else. This will flush out all of the people that are online for other purposes and it will allow the people who can help you out to respond to you with ease. When you come across people who can provide you with tips, they will often say “hi” or begin typing in the text box. It may take a few minutes before you find someone, but once you do, they can really make your home renovations a lot easier.

What Type of Tips to Search For

You can use ChatRandom to find all sorts of tips. Whether you need help plugging in a dishwasher, putting up a new wall or even re-doing an entire bathroom, there are many qualified experts online here that can lend a helping hand. In fact, some people even use our video chat services to meet people who can help them design entire homes. There are many ways that the input of strangers can become beneficial and sometimes, getting the opinion of someone that you don’t know is more helpful than anything else.

Beware of Bad Information

It’s important to beware of people who just want to mess with you. Some people will give you fake tips just because they feel like chatting with you. However, it’s quite easy to spot fake people from actual home renovation experts. When you begin chatting with the people you meet on here, make sure that they really know what they are talking about before doing any work.

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Real Men Show Off Their Beards on Webcam  

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Let’s get straight to the point; beards are manly. Men all over the world are joining in on the new big beard trend that has guys growing out their beards to resemble lumberjacks. Every day, these guys are searching for new ways to show off their beards and to publically announce that they are real men.

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Display love for your beard on webcam chat!

That’s right, many people have begun showing off their beards on webcam chat sites! In fact, it has become such a big thing on video chat sites, that contests are even being held on a daily basis to see who has the best beard. If you have a beard, you’ll definitely want to try showing it off at ChatRandom.

Big Love for Big Beards

Did you know that more than half of the female population prefers a man with a beard?

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Women have big love for men with big beards and there’s no better place to show off your manly facial hairs than on webcam. When you use ChatRandom, you can meet hundreds of cool and interesting people every single hour. Many of these people are actually very sexy ladies just begging to feel that beard of yours.

A Few Things to do With Your Beard on Cam

You may be wondering what the heck you can actually do with your beard on webcam. Well we have a little list prepared for you so you don’t have to sit there doing nothing. Here are some really cool things you can do on webcam with your beard.

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  • Show it off
  • Compare beards with other bearded men
  • Become the fantasy of all women online
  • Shape it into different forms (if long enough)
  • Participate in beard contests
  • Drink dark beer & look manly

As you can see, beards are quite versatile. You can actually do a lot if you get creative. Our list is short and we are sure that you can come up with dozens of other really cool things to do with your beard online.

Girls Love Beards – Here’s Why

If you have a beard, you know just how effective it is with the ladies. For all of you beardless men out there, here are just a few reasons why you should consider growing one of your own.

Looks mature: Girls love how mature a guy looks when he has a beard. It just seems like he can handle situations in a calm deep voice without having a fit like a boy.

Great in bed: Girls go crazy for the bearded because it’s a well-known fact that guys with beards are amazing sexual performers. In fact, they tend to go down on women much more than the beard-less and they excel at it too.

Alpha males: Guys with beards are true alpha males. They can wrestle a bear with their hands, skin it with their teeth and cook it on a fire that they started by knocking two rocks together, all without ever dropping their dark beer. Girls love this.

Now that you know all about beards, get on webcam chat and compare your beard with others or get tips on how to become a true beard champion.

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5 Little Secrets to Getting Into Any Girl’s Panties  

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It may seem like a complete myth to some guys, but girls really do take their pants off from time to time. In fact, they even take them off for your pleasure. It’s true, and there are secrets that will allow you to get into any girl’s panties, as long as you try real hard. You see, you don’t need to be Dan Bilzerian in order to get into a girl’s pants, you just need to follow a few guidelines. We have compiled a few tips so that you can easily make a girl want to get naked for you. Put these to good use and come thank us when they end up getting laid more than ever before!

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Stink of Confidence

Make yourself the most confident man you could possibly be. Think of George Clooney, Brad Pitt and even Harrison Ford while walking down the streets. Become them. The more confident you think you are, the more confident you will become. Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a confident man, so stink up the place with your overwhelming confidence. Remember, you don’t have to be confident, you just need to make others believe that you’re confident.

Lighten Things Up

Making a girl laugh is the key to her heart. Alright, you don’t want to get married, you just want to get laid. Well the wonderful thing about getting the key to a girl’s heart is that you’ll need to take her shirt off in order to reach her heart. Lightening things up by making a girl laugh will get you huge points. Don’t overdo it with lame pickup lines and boring jokes; just become a funny, confident alpha male.

Never Get Wasted

Yep, this one sucks. Don’t ever get wasted or drunk when in the presence of girls. You don’t want them thinking of you as the weird guy who can’t hold his alcohol. Getting drunk also causes you to look ridiculous. You want to aim for alpha male, so if you’re the last one standing at the end of a party and you can still hold a decent conversation, chances are, you’ll be the one leaving with the girl. No girl wants to end the night with a drunken fool that can complete a sentence. Keep it together!

Girl Talk Counts

Girl talk happens all the time, even when you least expect it. If you have a specific girl in mind, winning over her friends will allow you to score big. The next time the girl you like has girl talk with those friends, they will be in your corner cheering you on. It’s also a lot easier to be confident with girls that don’t really interest you, so getting the friends to like you will be much easier. Who knows, you may even get lucky enough to get into her friends’ panties before you move onto her!

Patience My Friend

Chilling out and keeping on the down low is just as important as all of the other tips, if not more. No girl on this planet will take kindly to a guy who smothers her. Constantly following her around, texting her, Facebooking her and even looking in her direction at all times, will cause you to miss out on a good thing. Just chill, make the first move and then wait. Text her first, then wait for her to respond; if she doesn’t, move on.

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6 Creative Ways to Make Your Webcam Dates Fun  

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Online dating doesn’t have to be boring; even if you are miles apart, there are tons of ways that you can make your dates interesting. We have built a quick list to show you just how fun webcam dating can really be. Whether it’s your first date or even if you’ve been in a long-distance relationship for several years, these ideas will bring romance back into your life.

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Play Online Games

Online games aren’t just for people who want to waste some of their free time at work. Playing online games together is a great way for you to connect with the other person. It gets rid of awkward silences and you can have deep conversations while having some fun. There are tons of sites that provide you with free online games and even popular board games.

YouTube Date

This date idea is a huge hit for long-distance relationships. You both essentially go on video streaming sites like YouTube and watch videos together. The important thing to remember is to watch the videos at the exact same time, so you can both react to the video at the same time. You can even take turns finding videos.

Enjoy the Night’s Sky

Nobody said webcam dates had to be done indoors. If you have a laptop or a wireless webcam, bring your date outside and gaze up at the stars together. Sure, you’re miles apart, but you’ll both be gazing at the exact same thing. The stars in the sky are one of the only things in the world that you can both enjoy in real time together. Plus, it’s amazingly romantic.

Romantic Dinner

You don’t have to go out to a 5 star restaurant in order to enjoy a romantic meal together. In fact, you don’t even have to be in the same city. Cooking the same meal on webcam at the same time is a wonderful way for the two of you to bond together and enjoy some laughs. It’s simple, easy and really fun. When the meal is ready, make sure you have some candles lit and some tunes playing in the background. Treat this dinner just like any regular date and you’ll definitely have a very nice evening.

Horror Movie Date

Although this may not be for everyone, nothing is going to keep you on your toes as much as watching a horror movie together. Turn the lights down low and watch the exact same movie together. Press the play button at the exact same moment so there is no lag while you’re both watching it.

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7 Ways Celebs Look Good on Camera  

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Have you ever noticed that celebrities look amazing on camera, but in real life they look just like regular people. There are certain Hollywood tricks that allow celebrities to look that way on camera. The amazing thing is that you can use these tricks to for videos, live webcam chats and much more.

The Glitter Lips

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Female celebrities often look like they have ever-lasting lip-gloss. The weird thing about their lips is that most of them don’t use lip-gloss at all. In fact, they use a fine cost of glitter in either white or gold shades. This allows the lips to look shiny all night long without ever rubbing off. Using a Q-tip, you can apply a thin coat of clear glitter to your lips and really make them pop on camera.

Shiny Hair

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You know that incredibly shiny hair appearance that many celebs have? Well you can have it too. It’s easy really. Celebs mix glitter with hairspray to make the light bounce back into the camera, making hair look extra shiny and chic. Yes, you’ve already figured it out; if you want to look like celebs, you’ll need to buy a ton of glitter. Mix ultra fine, loose glitter with hairspray and spray away.

Perfect Face

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Celebs have faces that are seemingly perfect – not too much shine and no matte tones either. To achieve this appearance, you’ll need to dip your powder brush into a moisturizer and then dip that into face powder. Apply this to your face and you won’t believe how amazing your look on camera.

Mascara Free For All

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Mascara is incredibly important for female stars. Don’t be afraid to apply too much mascara. In fact, it’s good to have a little more mascara than you normally would so the camera can really pick it up and make it a facial strong point.

The White Teeth Illusion

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White teeth are a major part of celebs looking great on camera. They always seem to have an impossible to achieve smile. With teeth as white as snow, you’ll often find yourself trying treatments, gum and toothpastes just to achieve the same appearance. Guess what, many celebs use a red stain on their gums to make their teeth appear whiter than they truly are.

Ear Foundation

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Many women apply foundation to their faces, but not to their ears. Ears are also part of the face and make a huge contrast if no foundation is applied. Make sure to add just as much foundation to your ears as you would to your face in order to really make it an even and beautiful look.

Filling in the Brows

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Full eyebrows are incredibly important for both men and women. They define the face and make the eyes pop. Using a pencil, powder or brow mascara, fill in your eyebrows to give them a full appearance and much better look on camera.

 

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How to Bring Your Online Dates Offline in Complete Safety

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Dating online makes finding love a lot easier. You’ll get to meet a ton of people without much of a struggle. However, you’ll eventually want to take your dates to the next level and actually meet up with them in person. When the time comes, there are a few things you should consider in order to keep yourself safe. With so many creeps out there, it’s crucial that you take all necessary precautions.

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Here are a few tips to help you bring your online dates offline in complete safety.

Gather Information

Prior to scheduling a date with the person you love online, try to figure out a little more about them. Social media and Google makes this a lot easier than you may imagine. Snoop around and try to figure out what type of people they hang out with, where they went to school and try to find out if they lied to you about anything important.

It’s okay to become a temporary stalker in this case because you want to be sure that the person you will be meeting is the real deal.

Pick a Public Spot

Having the date in a public area is crucial. You never want your first dates with someone you met online to be at your place or theirs. Keeping the date public allows you to remain in complete safety since there are tons of people around you. A great way to kick it off is by meeting them for dinner in a restaurant; don’t have them pick you up.

Schedule a morning date at a café to grab a cup of coffee together. Regardless of where you go, make sure plenty of people are around.

Take Your Time

Rushing into bringing the online love offline is a bad idea. Most people use dating sites because they want to find love fast, but that doesn’t mean you have to meet up with them the same day. A good rule of thumb is to give yourselves two weeks of online conversations before planning a real date.

By taking the time to get to know them, you will know what to expect. Talking with the person online for two weeks before actually meeting up with them will also give you enough time to determine whether or not they could be a good match in the long run.

Just like meeting up with them, you’ll want to pace yourself with on-going dates once you have met them. Don’t end the first date in bed and don’t schedule a 2nd date for the very next day. Wait a few days and see how things go.

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